Because you think it's the decent thing to do....Because your mother won't approve...She won't approve, but you'll marry me anyway, and you'll be so unhappy....marriage has to be by your own approval.No one else's.He didn't argue back or try to change her mind about her decision - something he would later regret.During the ship's brief docking in San Francisco, Queeg covered up the embarrassing incident, and subsequently filed a false report to avoid answering questions.Well, Chips has a cold, and a cold can be quite a serious thing for a young fellow of eighty-three.Old schoolmaster 'Chips' was ordered to stay at home by the school's doctor, "but it was quite a battle.His mother naively jokes with the "killers" during their trapped elevator ride about their deadly intentions:You gentlemen aren'treallytrying to kill my son, are you?Everyone laughs boisterously at the ludicrous question and joke - except Roger, the helpless victim.She said to me, 'Hey, you know a nice girl for my boy Marty?'...What's the matter with you? Now you get married.You hear what I say!...You should be ashamed of yourself.A second female customer chastises him - he should be ashamed for remaining single for so long: "Marty, you ought o be ashamed of yourself.